Sunday, October 18, 2009

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Finally sleeping!  I don't know if it was Uncle Andrew's contagious personality also sharing the backseat or if he just wasn't tired till a few minutes ago ... 
We're on our way back from Leavenworth, wa where we spent a great weekend with Andrew.  Thanks for meeting us, Bro!!

Friday, October 9, 2009

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Thursday, October 8, 2009

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Yes it's spaghetti ... Reason number 45 why we need to get around to putting in cupboard locks!!

Well hello there!

Hello. It's hard to know what to share sometimes ... and I have been intentionally weeding out some things that require extra effort. You haven't seen us on Facebook in quite a while either, I know. I do check the blog just about daily, as if to see if I've posted anything more - really, it's to see if any of our friends have. If you haven't checked out our friends' blogs, please do! Lots of stories of joy, fulfillment, kiddos, happiness ... they're great. It's great to be able to get a glimpse into the thinking of our friends and the special - or sometimes simply normal - events going on in their lives. Because I enjoy your posts so much, I suppose we should share one in return.

We realized recently that summer is just about over. Oh wait, it IS over! September 22, right? The official first day of FALL? Well not for us - we're busting out the barbeque, enjoying burgers, steaks, corn on the cob, biking as a family, and enjoying walks in the city on Sunday afternoons. We tried fishing one day a few weeks ago, but it was quite anti-climactic.

My analysis on our allowing summer to pass us by? Aside from the loss of my dad, I used to have a huge picture window in my office, which would inspire creative summer behaviors in years past ... this year I'm sequestered away in a little box where my only window to the outside world is outside of my door, and across 5 rows of cubicles - just a small sliver of a window, really. I'm going to try working from home one day a week during the fall; we'll see if I can get more exposure to light at the kitchen table.

Graham gets more and more precious every day. I am, of course, including pictures - enjoy them, I'm hoping there will be more. I have not downloaded since the beginning of August, again, it was something that got "weeded" out for a time, but now I'm feeling more in the mood to share ... and taking advantage of it while it lasts.

Love you all, and thanks for your prayers!


This is at the coast with friends in August - Graham loved reading with Kurt!

... at the coast with friends in August

... waiting for Daddy in the car before leaving for the coast with friends in August :)

... still waiting ...

Graham's favorite place right now - the couch and trunk make this quite the cozy little book nook; and he's content quietly turning pages and reading to himself. Hasn't torn a page yet!(okay, maybe just one when Uncle Andrew was here)


Just hanging out playing ...


Our first family fishing trip!

Little fisherman ...

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Test message number 1!!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

What I read this morning ... speaks to me on many levels

Psalm 16:5-11

The Lord is the portion of my inheritance and my cup;
Thou does support my lot.
The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places;
Indeed my heritage is beautiful to me.

I will bless the Lord who has couseled me;
Indeed my mind instructs me in the night.
I have set the Lord continually before me;
Because He is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoices;
My flesh also will dwell securely.
For Thou wilt not abandon my soul to Sheol;
Neither wilt Thou allow Thy Holy One to undergo decay.

Thou wilt make known to me the path of life;
In Thy presence is fulness of joy;
In Thy right hand there are pleasures forever.




Some of my thoughts/reflections

The Lord is the portion of my inheritance and my cup;
God is what I have. He is what I have been given, the most important of all. I could say I have inherited a passion and desire for Him from both of my parents.

Thou does support my lot.
He is with me, walks with me through the path and journey I am on.


The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places;
Indeed my heritage is beautiful to me.

I love these lines. I love the way this is written. These lines remind me that I have had a blessed amazing life, and am so fortunate to have been fathered by such an amazing dad.

I will bless the Lord who has couseled me;
Indeed my mind instructs me in the night.

Thank you Lord for counseling me and guiding my mind when it's out of my control ... thank you that when I wake up I wake up feeling at peace. Thank you for desiring to be with me and walk with me through all of my pain forever.

I have set the Lord continually before me;
Because He is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.

It is a given. I may shake, I may quake, but I will not be shaken.

Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoices;
My flesh also will dwell securely.

I have reason to be happy, my heart can find reasons to glory in things around me, the people, the flowers, the rain, the sun, the cascading layers of hills along the horizon ... my husband who reminds me of my dad. It is nice that God reminds us that not only can our spirit dwell securely, but so can our flesh, and He desires that for us.

For Thou wilt not abandon my soul to Sheol;
Neither wilt Thou allow Thy Holy One to undergo decay.

I am His, and He will protect me for all of eternity.

Thou wilt make known to me the path of life;
In Thy presence is fulness of joy;
In Thy right hand there are pleasures forever.

Again, he presents me with reasons for, and sources of, joy, and He tells me it is fine and good, wonderful and beautiful to rejoice in them. And to rejoice and revel in the love, care, and eternal peace He holds for me.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Fun times in Minneanapolis (that's how I used to say it ...)

We Love You, Grandma Esther!!


This weekend we travelled to Minneapolis where we buried my Grandma's ashes next to my Grandpa Victor at Fort Snelling. She passed away in Pella, Iowa, where we celebrated her life back in November. We have had this trip planned for a few months, and it was great to have everyone together. I know my dad was really looking forward to this trip, and he would have been pleased by the quality time we all spent together. It's the second time in three months that we have been together, and man, does it feel good.

Pat and I met my mom in the MSP airport and we got into our rental car to head for our hotel in Vadnais Heights. We spent some time with family, then crashed into bed.

The next day was Friday. We spent the morning trying to figure out where to go in the Mall of America for lunch, then racing there and eating fast enough so we could make it to Fort Snelling for our 25 minutes in the shelter we were assigned. That is quite the operation ... they have you in and out; must have something to do with the high volume of folks who reside there (lots of white tombstones).

After our 25 minutes reminiscing and praying in the shelter, we wanted to wait in the neighborhood while they put her ashes into the ground. So we tried to hang out in two hotel lobbies (we ended up at the Holiday Inn) where those of us who hadn't eaten at the MOA were able to get some food. Then back to the cemetery where we visited Grandpa and Grandma's site together. You can see the pictures below.

That night we ate pizza together at Warren Olsen's house, my Aunt Pam's dad. He was a gracious host to a huge group of people. I think we numbered at least 21 at that point! We went back to the hotel where Pat and I joined our youngest cousins, Joshua (14), and Jakob & Brita (10) in the pool, having a blast on the water slide. My body is still scolding me for acting so young! All this time, Graham was sleeping, with Grandmother Kathy watching over him.

On Saturday, we had a shelter/pavilion rented for the day at Bald Eagle Lake, so we enjoyed hanging out together in the not-as-warm-as-we-had-thought weather. I got out on the water for a while, but realized too late that I had forgotten to buy the all-important fishing license! At least I got to watch my cousins catch fish!

Graham enjoyed crawling around with his Baby Legs on, going from loving cousin to loving aunt, back and forth and forth and back ... one highlight of the day was when our long-lost cousin "Neil" came to visit us from the Oshkosh overall factory where he worked as a midget model for their suspender pants. Amazing how much he looked like Andy! Graham wasn't too sure about this new character and cried when we tried to get him to share a hug with cousin Neil.

On Sunday we visited Woodland Heights church, where my cousin Brittany goes, then went to lunch at Perkins. Then we said our lengthy goodbyes and headed for the airport. Before we left, we talked about doing this again next year ... and I am already looking forward to it.


There are a lot of photos in this post, and I hope you enjoy them ... I am putting them here as much for me (and Graham!) as for all of you ... it's good to have a record of our times, and this is our record.


Headed for the rental car, riding with Grandmother Kathy -
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With cousin Caitlin, waiting for the Fort Snelling associate to come and take us to our assigned shelter.






Daddy catching Graham's eye in the mirror. Even now G is laughing at this picture as he sees it on the computer monitor.









With cousin Tim as we were waiting at Fort Snelling ...



This is us in the shelter as we're sharing thoughts and memories of Grandma. Also in the picture is my cousin Brittany and her boyfriend Matt.


This is my littlest cousin Brita, who played a recorder version of Grandma's favorite song.



Graham with Grandma's box.




Hanging out in the hotel lobby ... with Brita.




The girl cousins! Molly, Brita, Brittany, and Caitlin. Go ladies!!




Our sweet family.



I had to ask for this picture to be taken ... Graham is not a cuddler, but for about 5 minutes while we were at the graveside, he totally nuzzled in and took comfort ... Mr. Monkers and I took good care of him.




Top row: Left to right, Cheryl (dad's baby sister), Ken (dad's second brother), Pam, Ryan, Joshua, Andrew, Mom, Carol, Caitlin, Tim, Michael, Dan (dad's third brother), and Shelly
Bottom row: Jakob, Molly, Pat, Graham, Brita, Brittany



One night, Graham woke up in the middle of the night and the only thing that would placate him was Uncle Andrew singing "I'm My Own Grandpa," over and over (so long that Andrew fell asleep singing, words slurring as he neared slumber). I set Graham down on Andy's couch bed for the rest of the night, and you can see a picture below of all the men-folk resting together in the morning.



Aunt Shelly and cousin Brittany kissing and loving on Baby G.




This is Brittany working on her unofficial assignment to help Graham learn to walk ... I helped her learn many years ago!



And here, for your enjoyment, is our long-lost cousin Neil!